Allison Ricciardi, Psychotherapist
Perhaps you sensed something is wrong but can't imagine what it is. For one thing, your husband stays up far later than you do. Then, there seems to be his lack of interest in you. When you are together, he seems distracted and hurried, he's on the computer so much. Worst of all, he just seems to look past you.
You aren't connecting as a couple in any way. You feel alone, lonely, and disregarded. It may well be that your husband is one of the millions of men who have a pornography addiction. It is as rampant in the pews as it is in the bleachers. What do you do as a wife and how do you find healing and hope?